It’s Time to Tell your Happily-Ever-After Story!

The fifth and final stage of Radical Forgiveness is integrating the new story.  The change needs to go deep inside you at a cellular level. Before I explain how this works let’s recap the previous 4 stages.   Stage One is telling your ‘victim’ story. We have to...
The Re-frame: It’s all in how you choose to look at it!

The Re-frame: It’s all in how you choose to look at it!

Stage 4 in Radical Forgiveness is about re-framing the story. This is where the magic happens. It’s time to be willing to change the way we look at the story in order to transform it. Turning it from a tragic story into one we wanted to experience, from a soul...
Time to Start Busting that Story!

Time to Start Busting that Story!

Being the victim in life is easy, when the blame is on others we dont’ have to be self-aware, we can point the finger at someone else. We all know someone like this and we have all been this person at one time or another. This is called denial of what’s...
Do you Ignore Your Feelings?

Do you Ignore Your Feelings?

We all pass judgments every day. We make these judgments in order to make good decisions and when they are good decisions they usually come from our intuition. When they are not-so-good ones they come from our ego. When things get too judgy, that’s the signal...
What’s your Victim Story?

What’s your Victim Story?

In my last post I gave a difficult scenario for some people to understand. The radical part of forgiveness is that in the end, nothing wrong ever happened. Our soul wanted the experiences to learn, heal and grow from. In looking at this from our human...
How can Forgiveness be so Radical?

How can Forgiveness be so Radical?

I know a way to look at your otherwise crappy situation radically. I know how you can feel peace around it. It’s a great feeling, and it’s easy and quick…. if you want to go there. Some people like staying in their situation. (aka their victim story)...